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    About the topic on “Exes”

    Before I go into this topic I want to clear the air. I personally do not want my partner to talk to their exes. Is it a big deal, probably not but it’s big enough to become single. But that’s me. So let’s get into it, Hi. I’ve hesitated to write about this topic in a while, not because I hadn’t moved on but because I had nothing positive to say about some exes. Then I grew up. That’s a hard thing to admit, not all exes are monsters, which is actually bad. They need to be monsters so that their “Hellos” don’t complicate current relationships. Questions about Exes Should…

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    About ” How to make money in a Zimbabwean college”

    Making money in college is the second most important thing after breathing, it’s one of those things that just has to happen. It could be for survival or just making that extra buck. But in Zimbabwe at the moment, it’s the basis of survival. Capital however is the greatest obstacle but that does not make it a limitation.This post will focus on low capital ideas and once you’re inspired ,you’ll be on your way to making money. These ideas work perfect in areas close to universities or within the campus itself. The mind of a boyfriend is aimed at making the typical boyfriend better. I. Running a Food Cart Students…

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    About dating a “broke” Girlfriend

    Dear Girlfriends burn in this new found glory. Yes this post,the tables have turned. We’re in the end game now. I have to say I haven’t quite dated a rich girlfriend which automatically means this means war. ( I’m just playing, this isn’t about me or the people I’ve dated. Or their Rich Dads. See what I did there ? ) Writing this was as fun as hatching the idea. So to spice things up, think of a girl you know , rate them. Dating a broke girlfriend is like using a trial version of a software, eventually you are going to have to pay or spend way more to…

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    About being a broke boyfriend

    Broke. You know being broke. Sorry I won’t put a technical definition because we all know what being broke means. For those who insist, being broke is the inability to purchase the most basic of things to sustain a relationship. Ignore every other definition,this is the only one that matters. *** Being a broke boyfriend is equivalent to being a soldier with no gun. A broke boyfriend never buys anything for his lady, does movies at home and never gets cake or chocolate. ( cake is love currency) Broke boyfriend is good with words and selling a dream. That’s all stereotypical. This post is about the insecurities of being a…

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    About the time I was a ‘Main’

    Main. The driver’s seat , the ultimate role. This is not a drill, this is the build up we were preparing for. First things first, let me send a shout out to the woman who made me a main ( without a side, for as long as that lasted). She was the sweetest thing ever. Okay, back to the narrative. This is post that separates men from boys, grades them into the “boyfriend” and ultimately “hus-kings” to their Empresses.  *** Main refers to boyfriend or girlfriend based on Titles. These are the things they don’t tell you about. These are the things I found out on my own, like I…

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    About the time I was a “Side”

    I was a side guy. It was a conscious post that I humbly embraced with both my legs ( hands sorry). I was the most unprofessional side guy ever, just a while ago I posted the guide for an NSA. So I figured why not post one for being a side person. ( This only applies if you know you’re a side, if you are confident you’re the main , close this immediately). I promised this type of content. ** I. Do not text or call first I recall being texted back by someone’s person trying to imitate their chat pattern. It was the weirdest text ever, it got me…

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    Gloves Off !

    Gloves off, hearts aside. I have so much to say. This all started with fun and games, stories and a lot fiction but you know what would make this better ? A whole lot of real life. Nothing beats real life events, with real people , yes and names too. (The thrill of writing got me shaking my head and licking my lips right now). The Mind of a boyfriend has been technical for the past few months, it was missing that “Me” factor, I mean imagine getting technical advice from a typical boyfriend. That’s just rich. I am not typical, I am the screw up type of boyfriend, the…

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    The No Strings Attached Guide

    No strings attached guide. Let’s get right to it I know you do not really care about the introduction. (Yeah me too). So from my post Titles, I skipped this on purpose, the reason being that NDAs ( No strings attached ) are controversial. Are they really possible? How do you not catch feelings? Well, this isn’t about that right now. This is a guideline for those who want to venture into the forbidden lands without risking their hearts. So definitions first: Having only sex with someone and nothing else but that. No hanging out unless it’s to phuck. urban dictionary NDAs have a time when they are functional which makes them…

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    Disgusting Abuse ! Did you know about these types ?

    Abuse has always been an issue of priority and it still is but it is shocking that even after all the strides that were taken, the cycle still continues. In this new age, abuse has evolved as well, but the known kinds of abuse are still there appalling enough. The Alpha’s code does not allow any victimization of empresses, help break the cycle. This is not just an Alpha code, it is a human code, something that needs collective action to work. My pain drove me to this post, it’s nothing personal but it must be. For all us. Spread the word, protect our empresses. These are some of the…

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    Random thought #7

    On Feminism // We talk of feminism the wrong way. Our strategy is more focused on imposition of the ideology onto to the masses ( who are mostly male) and not on the nurturing of the masses with adequate knowledge to yield understanding and acceptance. You cannot accept that which you do not understand. Yes we preach feminism and our primary goal is to empower women but what are we doing to prepare the men for these empowered women we are trying to create? Mitchel Mukuchura

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