• Mind of a boyfriend

    How to Make a Great First Impression

    The first impression is everything ! It is unfortunate that we humans will judge a book by it’s cover the first time we see it. If the book is not appealing we will go to the next one without thinking twice. Make the first impression the best showcase. Like seeds, impressions only grow where well placed. Here are 4 tips to make a great first impression worth a revisit therefore growing roots to a relationship. A step to being an alpha boyfriend. *** I. Let your body do the talking First of all, before you open your mouth. Personality and attitudes leaps out therefore it is essential to control body…

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    7 Things Boyfriends do wrong

    Men have given themselves pride in being the fountains of knowledge. They have unearthed great mysterious and discovered groundbreaking information about the universe. I mean they have created and destroyed governments just by using words. Their power comes from their knowledge of things but sad enough Men do not know women. Men do things and tell their friends they nailed it when they straight up annoyed or grossed out their women. Or worse. * Women are not experiments, objects or mere matter which makes it challenging for men to understand how women operate. There’s no scientific or mathematical equation to comprehend women and yet men (me excluded), still want to…

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    Dedications to Her

    Music is a language only the soul can fully understand. Everyone is connected by waves of sounds, it’s how we communicate. Kick everything old school or hit those new school vibes that feel like they belong in the 90s. Create a timeless playlist and update it once in a while. Speak to her through the songs that will make her teeth want to bite you. There’s nothing more profound than sharing music, it’s the language that talks when everything else has been spoken. It could be prophetic and suggestive, the power it has can turn a sorry to forgiveness, a no to how about lunch later. Whatever the case may…

  • The term boyfriend is a loose term referring to any male figure ( single, married, rejected, still trying his luck ), essentially it refers to a gentlemen .Mind of Gentlemen sounds too serious anyways. The mind of a boyfriend is about everything that surrounds social relations, trending topics and some unspoken sensitive issues, only with a twist and a bit of sauce. The thoughts expressed here are raw, unedited and typical views of an average boyfriend.
    Mind of a boyfriend

    Boyfriend – The mind

    The mind of a boyfriend is about everything that surrounds social relations, trending topics and some unspoken sensitive issues, only with a twist and a bit of sauce. The term boyfriend is a loose term referring to any male figure ( single, married, rejected, still trying his luck ), essentially it refers to a gentlemen . Therefore, I am a boyfriend . That is in the dictionary definition and ours. Mind of Gentlemen sounds too serious anyways. The thoughts expressed here are raw, unedited and typical views of an average boyfriend.The blog also focuses on the betterment of the human male so as to be the best version for his…

  • Pieces of Me

    Honest Lie.

    Most people say I’m a skeptic and a pessimist. I’m just a realistic thinker. I see and say things as they are. Is it offensive? Yes. The truth is always offensive. It never sets you free. It just creates a different kind of prison and label for you. Lying is not an option either. It is slow poison that erodes your sense of freedom and maintaining it is a debt to your conscious. *** My name is Jabulile Sigola. I am a liar. Can you boldy admit that you’ve become a liar by uttering more that one lie? *** There’s never enough justification for lying. Denying a person the truth…

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    Sauce

    Next ! It was finally my turn. The red uniform was threatening and yet so seductive. I could already taste my hot served meal and a slice of guilt. I took out my card and gave it to the till operator. She gave me that motherly “tell me what you want and go already”, right after she swiped my card as if she was sharpening a guillotine. I cleared my throat and apparently the world stopped. ” Can I get a 2 piecer, 1 minute maid and 1 relationship to go”. The whole complex become dead silent. I could almost hear my blood flowing to my brain. People can’t really…

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