• Mind of a boyfriend

    Gloves Off !

    Gloves off, hearts aside. I have so much to say. This all started with fun and games, stories and a lot fiction but you know what would make this better ? A whole lot of real life. Nothing beats real life events, with real people , yes and names too. (The thrill of writing got me shaking my head and licking my lips right now). The Mind of a boyfriend has been technical for the past few months, it was missing that “Me” factor, I mean imagine getting technical advice from a typical boyfriend. That’s just rich. I am not typical, I am the screw up type of boyfriend, the…

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    The No Strings Attached Guide

    No strings attached guide. Let’s get right to it I know you do not really care about the introduction. (Yeah me too). So from my post Titles, I skipped this on purpose, the reason being that NDAs ( No strings attached ) are controversial. Are they really possible? How do you not catch feelings? Well, this isn’t about that right now. This is a guideline for those who want to venture into the forbidden lands without risking their hearts. So definitions first: Having only sex with someone and nothing else but that. No hanging out unless it’s to phuck. urban dictionary NDAs have a time when they are functional which makes them…

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    8 Men’s Fashion essentials

    Being an alpha male is not a part time job, it is like breathing, it should never stop. We all have different tastes in fashion but there are universal essentials that every alpha should own. Okay Alphas, let’s get right into the list. I. A Dark Suit In a man’s life , a suit is necessary , it is a statement that is worn once in a while by an average male. If you do not work in an office , you still need a suit, there are a lot of functions that require a suit : weddings, interviews, church ,formal meetings and diners. II. A leather/metal watch A watch…

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    Spouse Abuse | Empress Violation

    This post was written in Pain. Initially it was just a topic of awareness then I figured this is not one of those. Abuse has to stop. There is no justification for it. It’s shocking that in the modern era where we claim to have evolved yet we still have full grown men abusing women. I also blame the society, yes you and I included. We turn a blind eye most of the time in the name of customs, marriage , blind hope and tradition. Like I said I am in pain that our sisters still go through abuse. The sad thing is at times they don’t even know they…

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    Random thought #13

    On Life // We hide behind statements and quotes that suggest that we are our own fans and can do this on our own and other self centered sentiments, but deep down we need gratification, and that supporting nod that comes from others . No matter how much we try to hide it, we do need that for us to keep on going. King Culture

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    How to Make a Great First Impression

    The first impression is everything ! It is unfortunate that we humans will judge a book by it’s cover the first time we see it. If the book is not appealing we will go to the next one without thinking twice. Make the first impression the best showcase. Like seeds, impressions only grow where well placed. Here are 4 tips to make a great first impression worth a revisit therefore growing roots to a relationship. A step to being an alpha boyfriend. *** I. Let your body do the talking First of all, before you open your mouth. Personality and attitudes leaps out therefore it is essential to control body…

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    7 Things Boyfriends do wrong

    Men have given themselves pride in being the fountains of knowledge. They have unearthed great mysterious and discovered groundbreaking information about the universe. I mean they have created and destroyed governments just by using words. Their power comes from their knowledge of things but sad enough Men do not know women. Men do things and tell their friends they nailed it when they straight up annoyed or grossed out their women. Or worse. * Women are not experiments, objects or mere matter which makes it challenging for men to understand how women operate. There’s no scientific or mathematical equation to comprehend women and yet men (me excluded), still want to…

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    Oh Glorious Situationship !

    You think you’re in a relationship ? Everything is there, the attention, the sparks and the butterflies but it all seems like you’re a continuous one night stand. Friends with endless benefits. Chances are you’re in a relationship, alone. That uncertainty, that grey area is a situationship .These are signs that you’re in a situationship : *** I. No titles ! On the previous post we talked about titles and their implications. If there is no title there is no relationship. Thought: Are you the boyfriend? Are you the Girlfriend? How do you know you’re the Main ? If you’re unsure of any of those answers, you’re probably in a…

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