Staying in a relationship for the wrong reasons is a drag. A loving, committed, supportive relationship is one of the best feelings on Earth. That only works if you’re there because your heart is in the right place. Although we might not realize it sometimes, many of us are staying in a relationship for the wrong reasons. And if you’re not in a relationship for the pure reasons of love and happiness, you might quickly find that you either get bored and exhausted of it, or the relationship just ends anyway. Through the drama, the thrill, the chemistry, relationships grow and the infatuation stages fades. What’s left is love and…
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About “Signs that you’re dating yourself”
Relationships are a two player game. Nothing more , nothing less. Most relations begin at a high note and over time, the energy fades and eventually it becomes one player. If you start noticing the following signs, know that the love is one way; You text a whole scroll, the response comes in one sentence. People in love will always have a lot to talk about. However, if you realize that in most occasions that you communicate with your partner, the response you get is just a mere word, one emoji or no response at all, just start packing because you are not required in this relationship. You are dating yourself.…
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4 Men’s Grooming mistakes women hate
Men are terrible at hygiene and grooming routines. We often pride ourselves in being “boys” but the truth is that is a turn off if you are seeking to make it to the spaces with women. Our grooming routines could need a boost . Women pay attention to how men groom themselves and take care of their physical aspects just like they pay attention to themselves. So, here are 3 grooming mistakes women hate. Do not make these mistakes : 1.Long Finger Nails Long fingernails on a guy are disturbing. If you have long, unmanaged fingernails, you are in the red zone. Get rid of long nails. ( Then there…
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About the topic on “Exes”
Before I go into this topic I want to clear the air. I personally do not want my partner to talk to their exes. Is it a big deal, probably not but it’s big enough to become single. But that’s me. So let’s get into it, Hi. I’ve hesitated to write about this topic in a while, not because I hadn’t moved on but because I had nothing positive to say about some exes. Then I grew up. That’s a hard thing to admit, not all exes are monsters, which is actually bad. They need to be monsters so that their “Hellos” don’t complicate current relationships. Questions about Exes Should…
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About ” How to make money in a Zimbabwean college”
Making money in college is the second most important thing after breathing, it’s one of those things that just has to happen. It could be for survival or just making that extra buck. But in Zimbabwe at the moment, it’s the basis of survival. Capital however is the greatest obstacle but that does not make it a limitation.This post will focus on low capital ideas and once you’re inspired ,you’ll be on your way to making money. These ideas work perfect in areas close to universities or within the campus itself. The mind of a boyfriend is aimed at making the typical boyfriend better. I. Running a Food Cart Students…
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About dating a “broke” Girlfriend
Dear Girlfriends burn in this new found glory. Yes this post,the tables have turned. We’re in the end game now. I have to say I haven’t quite dated a rich girlfriend which automatically means this means war. ( I’m just playing, this isn’t about me or the people I’ve dated. Or their Rich Dads. See what I did there ? ) Writing this was as fun as hatching the idea. So to spice things up, think of a girl you know , rate them. Dating a broke girlfriend is like using a trial version of a software, eventually you are going to have to pay or spend way more to…
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About being a broke boyfriend
Broke. You know being broke. Sorry I won’t put a technical definition because we all know what being broke means. For those who insist, being broke is the inability to purchase the most basic of things to sustain a relationship. Ignore every other definition,this is the only one that matters. *** Being a broke boyfriend is equivalent to being a soldier with no gun. A broke boyfriend never buys anything for his lady, does movies at home and never gets cake or chocolate. ( cake is love currency) Broke boyfriend is good with words and selling a dream. That’s all stereotypical. This post is about the insecurities of being a…
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About the time I was a ‘Main’
Main. The driver’s seat , the ultimate role. This is not a drill, this is the build up we were preparing for. First things first, let me send a shout out to the woman who made me a main ( without a side, for as long as that lasted). She was the sweetest thing ever. Okay, back to the narrative. This is post that separates men from boys, grades them into the “boyfriend” and ultimately “hus-kings” to their Empresses. *** Main refers to boyfriend or girlfriend based on Titles. These are the things they don’t tell you about. These are the things I found out on my own, like I…
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About the time I was a “Side”
I was a side guy. It was a conscious post that I humbly embraced with both my legs ( hands sorry). I was the most unprofessional side guy ever, just a while ago I posted the guide for an NSA. So I figured why not post one for being a side person. ( This only applies if you know you’re a side, if you are confident you’re the main , close this immediately). I promised this type of content. ** I. Do not text or call first I recall being texted back by someone’s person trying to imitate their chat pattern. It was the weirdest text ever, it got me…
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Gloves Off !
Gloves off, hearts aside. I have so much to say. This all started with fun and games, stories and a lot fiction but you know what would make this better ? A whole lot of real life. Nothing beats real life events, with real people , yes and names too. (The thrill of writing got me shaking my head and licking my lips right now). The Mind of a boyfriend has been technical for the past few months, it was missing that “Me” factor, I mean imagine getting technical advice from a typical boyfriend. That’s just rich. I am not typical, I am the screw up type of boyfriend, the…
