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    7 Things Boyfriends do wrong

    Men have given themselves pride in being the fountains of knowledge. They have unearthed great mysterious and discovered groundbreaking information about the universe. I mean they have created and destroyed governments just by using words. Their power comes from their knowledge of things but sad enough Men do not know women. Men do things and tell their friends they nailed it when they straight up annoyed or grossed out their women. Or worse. * Women are not experiments, objects or mere matter which makes it challenging for men to understand how women operate. There’s no scientific or mathematical equation to comprehend women and yet men (me excluded), still want to…

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    Make peace with your ex- Feature 01

    ‘Make peace with your past’ the cliche is probably as old as time itself. Time itself has revealed that it heals all the pain… well to those who confront their pain and deal with it. Time is the constant you are the reactant! So the sooner you react and deal with source of your pain the sooner you will heal. So yes… ‘make peace with your ex’ because he/she is part of your past, a past that can never be escaped nor erased. You might be reading this thinking maybe I am probably asking you to dine with your ex … No! It’s no secret breakups can leave you hurt…

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    What turns ladies off – Discussion 02

    What turns ladies off is about the scariest thing to know. What if everything you’ve been doing is a turn off ? How do you fix something that has been engraved in your personality ? Simple, unlearn it if it’s a behavior. If it’s something physically impossible to fix it then she can deal with or shove it up her futsek ! ( Hahaha imagine if it was actually allowed to say that, that would make us the greatest hypocrites) . This post is about the things that can be fixed. What Gives ? There are a lot of things men do not know. Ego comes first and they believe…

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    Roles of a Boyfriend- Discussion 01

    Roles of a boyfriend. Sounds like a full job with a corner office, a medical aid benefit and pension lined up. Recently, the roles have been confusing. They’re mostly stuck between husband , friend with benefit, ATM and father. To clear the air, we will discuss this. ( Post your views in the Comment section) What are the roles of a boyfriend ? ( Your opinion) Honestly the mature role of a boyfriend is to give emotional support. A boyfriend should be a support system, offering love and care to his girlfriend which of course should be reciprocated. Financial support should be the cherry on top in a relationship not…

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    About “Being yourself in a relationship”

    A person who has no life will make the relationship their life and that will drain your life. That’s just one scenario, an extreme one for that matter. So, you’re in love ? Your partner is your everything and so you compromise so much to make it make, or everything is actually just perfect. Now, the problem is you are spiraling out your own lane, and you are losing yourself. Remember, what makes you work as a couple are the differences you both possess. Stay yourself. So how do you continue being yourself in a relationship ? PERSONAL SPACE & TIME While you want to spend most of your time…

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    About “ Lockdown vs Relationships”

    Lockdown. The stuff of horrors and every apocalyptic movie ever. It’s crazy out here, shops are closed, liquor stores are closed even the churches are closed and some of us are due for confessions. With everything closed, relationships are carrying the most strains. Relationships are basically Liverpool in this season, the end of the tunnel isn’t lit. Relationships trends are just depressing right now, but some people are having their best lives. So let’s try listing what’s happening right now. What are we questions Too much time on our hands and hormones flying around like that one time there was a cloud of locusts. And in all that, humans decide…

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    About “ Red Flags to look out for” – Hers

    Red flags to look out for in a relationship. RED. FLAGS. Okay, let’s get right to it. You’ve probably heard someone being called toxic in a relationship or there’s that friend of yours who dated that one girl who seemed to abuse her. It usually starts off well. But let’s skip the whole introduction. So what kind of red flags are we looking for. Below are some of the common red flags that researchers and therapists recommend you look for in a relationship. ( It scared me too I know, people actually research and test humans on this ) 1. You can’t stand any of her friends. You don’t need…

  • Staying in a relationship for the wrong reasons is a drag. A loving, committed, supportive relationship is one of the best feelings on Earth. That only works if you're there because your heart is in the right place.
    Dating,  Mind of a boyfriend

    About “Staying in a relationship for the wrong reasons”

    Staying in a relationship for the wrong reasons is a drag. A loving, committed, supportive relationship is one of the best feelings on Earth. That only works if you’re there because your heart is in the right place. Although we might not realize it sometimes, many of us are staying in a relationship for the wrong reasons. And if you’re not in a relationship for the pure reasons of love and happiness, you might quickly find that you either get bored and exhausted of it, or the relationship just ends anyway. Through the drama, the thrill, the chemistry, relationships grow and the infatuation stages fades. What’s left is love and…

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    About “Signs that you’re dating yourself”

    Relationships are a two player game. Nothing more , nothing less. Most relations begin at a high note and over time, the energy fades and eventually it becomes one player. If you start noticing the following signs, know that the love is one way; You text a whole scroll, the response comes in one sentence. People in love will always have a lot to talk about. However, if you realize that in most occasions that you communicate with your partner, the response you get is just a mere word, one emoji or no response at all, just start packing because you are not required in this relationship. You are dating yourself.…

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    4 Men’s Grooming mistakes women hate

    Men are terrible at hygiene and grooming routines. We often pride ourselves in being “boys” but the truth is that is a turn off if you are seeking to make it to the spaces with women. Our grooming routines could need a boost . Women pay attention to how men groom themselves and take care of their physical aspects just like they pay attention to themselves. So, here are 3 grooming mistakes women hate. Do not make these mistakes : 1.Long Finger Nails Long fingernails on a guy are disturbing. If you have long, unmanaged fingernails, you are in the red zone. Get rid of long nails. ( Then there…

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