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    Their Male bestfriend- Discussion

    The holy grail of topics, well after cheating and gossip topics of course. How do you keep your cool and security intact in a scenario where her bestfriend is a guy ? Jealousy and insecurity are very unattractive and cancerous but how on earth do you keep those in check when Bestie is there ? These people have been friends before you even came to the picture. Chances are the reason why she said yes was because of him, ever thought of that ? And that’s also scary, if he has that much influence, what else can he achieve. What if he’s madly in love with your girlfriend and he’s…

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    We are tired of Socks and Mugs

    Gifts are the ultimate physical sign of appreciation or to some the Lord being their Shepard is enough. I have heard a lot of our empresses complaining about what to get for men, my response has always been the same. Get him things he likes not things you assume all men like. But they like other women, and that is how most of the conversation end. So what do you get for men ? I will tell you what not to get then you will have to figure out what to get. YOU ARE A NOT A GIFT LADIES If your gift is your body or any part of you…

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    What’s the Spice ?

    I’ve always battled with understanding what makes relationships tick the way they do. At some point I attributed everything to fate, soul mates they call it. How do they keep going after so many years ? What’s the secret behind these long term relationships? It’s easier to say it’s destiny but destiny has given most of us bruises and emotional knock outs. Karma has taken matters of the heart and made us victims of crimes we did and didn’t commit. Yet still, some people have mastered the art of staying in a relationship more than 4 years. What sorcery is that ?What’s the spice? Ingredients to great relationships exist, not…

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    Take with warm Water

    The bitterest pills to swallow are often the most easily available. They’re right there on the surface but blindness is the first impulse to them. It’s painful to acknowledge certain realities because that would make our lives unstable. That being the case, it’s easier to live in a fantasy than facing the real world but that ends now. That’s if you’re ready to accept it. If not, I hope some day, you will face people and situations for what they really are. Being trash is not gendered The narrative is “men are trash” and that goes without analysis right. The implication is that women don’t cheat ,they don’t lie and…

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