• Mind of a boyfriend

    About “Being yourself in a relationship”

    A person who has no life will make the relationship their life and that will drain your life. That’s just one scenario, an extreme one for that matter. So, you’re in love ? Your partner is your everything and so you compromise so much to make it make, or everything is actually just perfect. Now, the problem is you are spiraling out your own lane, and you are losing yourself. Remember, what makes you work as a couple are the differences you both possess. Stay yourself. So how do you continue being yourself in a relationship ? PERSONAL SPACE & TIME While you want to spend most of your time…

  • Dating,  Mind of a boyfriend

    About “ Lockdown vs Relationships”

    Lockdown. The stuff of horrors and every apocalyptic movie ever. It’s crazy out here, shops are closed, liquor stores are closed even the churches are closed and some of us are due for confessions. With everything closed, relationships are carrying the most strains. Relationships are basically Liverpool in this season, the end of the tunnel isn’t lit. Relationships trends are just depressing right now, but some people are having their best lives. So let’s try listing what’s happening right now. What are we questions Too much time on our hands and hormones flying around like that one time there was a cloud of locusts. And in all that, humans decide…

  • Dating

    About ” Dealing with differences in your Relationship”

    Dealing with differences in your relationship sounds simple. No two people are alike, not even soulmates. We all have different value systems, beliefs and preferences but that doesn’t mean we’re incompatible. It’s in dealing with these were perfection lies. If you and your empress/emperor are having trouble resolving a difference in opinion, you might like to consider the following. Walk a mile in their shoes Perspective is everything. Try to see things from their point of view and see if that does not change the way you see something. Some values and systems are hard to adapt to or understand from your own personal spectrum, shift focus and use their…

  • Mind of a boyfriend

    About “ Red Flags to look out for” – Hers

    Red flags to look out for in a relationship. RED. FLAGS. Okay, let’s get right to it. You’ve probably heard someone being called toxic in a relationship or there’s that friend of yours who dated that one girl who seemed to abuse her. It usually starts off well. But let’s skip the whole introduction. So what kind of red flags are we looking for. Below are some of the common red flags that researchers and therapists recommend you look for in a relationship. ( It scared me too I know, people actually research and test humans on this ) 1. You can’t stand any of her friends. You don’t need…

  • Staying in a relationship for the wrong reasons is a drag. A loving, committed, supportive relationship is one of the best feelings on Earth. That only works if you're there because your heart is in the right place.
    Dating,  Mind of a boyfriend

    About “Staying in a relationship for the wrong reasons”

    Staying in a relationship for the wrong reasons is a drag. A loving, committed, supportive relationship is one of the best feelings on Earth. That only works if you’re there because your heart is in the right place. Although we might not realize it sometimes, many of us are staying in a relationship for the wrong reasons. And if you’re not in a relationship for the pure reasons of love and happiness, you might quickly find that you either get bored and exhausted of it, or the relationship just ends anyway. Through the drama, the thrill, the chemistry, relationships grow and the infatuation stages fades. What’s left is love and…

  • Mind of a boyfriend

    About “Signs that you’re dating yourself”

    Relationships are a two player game. Nothing more , nothing less. Most relations begin at a high note and over time, the energy fades and eventually it becomes one player. If you start noticing the following signs, know that the love is one way; You text a whole scroll, the response comes in one sentence. People in love will always have a lot to talk about. However, if you realize that in most occasions that you communicate with your partner, the response you get is just a mere word, one emoji or no response at all, just start packing because you are not required in this relationship. You are dating yourself.…

  • Grooming and Fitness

    About “How to Prevent Yellow Armpit Stains”

    Contrary to popular belief, it’s not your sweat itself that causes yellow stains. Most experts agree that that the cause of yellow armpit stains is the aluminum used in antiperspirants combined with your sweat. Imagine that ! The very substance that keeps your pits nice and dry also sabotages you. While foregoing antiperspirants can eliminate the risk of yellow stains later on, you’ll have to manage the wet semi-circles due to excessive sweating in the short-term. Prevention is better than cure. Well prevention in this case is better that ruining your confidence because of yellow stains under your armpits. The How Wear an undershirt Simply wearing an undershirt can work…

  • Grooming and Fitness,  Mind of a boyfriend

    4 Men’s Grooming mistakes women hate

    Men are terrible at hygiene and grooming routines. We often pride ourselves in being “boys” but the truth is that is a turn off if you are seeking to make it to the spaces with women. Our grooming routines could need a boost . Women pay attention to how men groom themselves and take care of their physical aspects just like they pay attention to themselves. So, here are 3 grooming mistakes women hate. Do not make these mistakes : 1.Long Finger Nails Long fingernails on a guy are disturbing. If you have long, unmanaged fingernails, you are in the red zone. Get rid of long nails. ( Then there…

  • Dating,  Mind of a boyfriend

    About the topic on “Exes”

    Before I go into this topic I want to clear the air. I personally do not want my partner to talk to their exes. Is it a big deal, probably not but it’s big enough to become single. But that’s me. So let’s get into it, Hi. I’ve hesitated to write about this topic in a while, not because I hadn’t moved on but because I had nothing positive to say about some exes. Then I grew up. That’s a hard thing to admit, not all exes are monsters, which is actually bad. They need to be monsters so that their “Hellos” don’t complicate current relationships. Questions about Exes Should…

  • Dating,  Mind of a boyfriend

    About ” How to make money in a Zimbabwean college”

    Making money in college is the second most important thing after breathing, it’s one of those things that just has to happen. It could be for survival or just making that extra buck. But in Zimbabwe at the moment, it’s the basis of survival. Capital however is the greatest obstacle but that does not make it a limitation.This post will focus on low capital ideas and once you’re inspired ,you’ll be on your way to making money. These ideas work perfect in areas close to universities or within the campus itself. The mind of a boyfriend is aimed at making the typical boyfriend better. I. Running a Food Cart Students…

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