Popayism
(Po- pa- yi- zim )
Verb.
¹ The act of ignoring reality all in the name of love to a point where it becomes comical.
² Acting like a cartoon in real life events.
“I can change him/her”
Your best bet is changing the color of the sky. While you’re at it, tame a piranha. Personality solidifies at a young age, attitudes form over time and character is crafted with experience. Can you change all that ? Without witchcraft? If you can, you’re invited to join our Mr Magoo cast.
He’ll leave his wife
Uhmm. Okay.
She doesn’t care about money
Justifying being broke won’t change that money is relationship makeup. A house without money has no peace. We live in a world where almost everything is purchased and a comfortable life needs a lot of purchases. She doesn’t care about money, true but what it does is what she cares about. We all do, you should see how men act around rich people.
Sexuality is real
“I can make him/her straight.” While at that, do find ways of adjusting height. Respect how people are and be open about your preferences.
Upgrade from Side
Put your hand on your chest and repeat after me if you believe in these upgrades.
” I’m a Mickey Mouse club member”, now do the hotdog dance. It’s odd how sides are barely upgraded.
I was a side chick for 3 years until he broke up with his main. And then got another main, instead of upgrading me 🥴
— Honey 🍯 (@honey_c17) November 27, 2020
“She’s just a friend / He’s my bestie”
Okay. Sesame street.
“I love you both”
Options Options Options. Well it’s possible to love people like that apparently but will you settle as an option? How low a bar do you have to put to stick around for that.
He is in love with two women and wants to get rid of one but loves them equally the same. #AskTari pic.twitter.com/wyR2a7D9mu
— Ask Tari (@Ask_Tari) November 29, 2020
“My mother likes you”
Using their parents or relatives as a way of showing their level of seriousness is a scam. Married men and women cheat, so what makes a boyfriend or girlfriend tender seem magical about such introductions. These people were introduced to pastors and the whole family. They’re just introductions, treat them as such.
Playing husband on a boyfriend tender
You’re not entitled to support her in ways her parents should. (If you’re at that age). Some roles are reserved for married people. This applies to ladies to, you cannot start washing his underwear and cooking on a daily for him, he’s not your husband. You’ll be broken when you break up, you can avoid such popayism. Act your role.
7 Comments
uBu
We have all been popay’s huh 😂😂😂
Boy.friend
Some of us became clowns
Chipo Kay
Makes sense in do many ways. Everyone is a Popeye, and now I’m even doubting my current… Thanks
Boy.friend
Effort , attention, honest and consistency.. if all that is there you’re probably safe
Boy.friend
Effort , attention, honesty and consistency.. if all that is there you’re probably safe
Thandie♡
I think most of us have graduated in the popayism industry
Connie
So if there is attention , consistent ,less effort and honesty am I still safe