I've been asked why I'm single a couple of times like it's a handicap. ( Or maybe it is, I don't know anymore). These are MY reasons, you could relate. Let's jump right into it. I am tired Relationship are beautiful and all but I am tired. For now. I don't have the energy to talk and try to build something from scratch only to feel void. I don't think a relationship is what I need right now. And I don't want to know a new person's favorite...
An adoptionship? What is this you speak of Human, you may ask. Let me explain ( I feel this phrase is going to stick). Some people feel entitled in relationships to the point of acting like they have no families or friends. A boyfriend/girlfriend isn't a meal ticket. Fair? An adoptionship is a malicious process whereby someone's child assumes the parenting of another grown human , usually a girlfriend (if it's a boyfriend that's a tender) ,...
Cutting off people is a taxing experience. There is an influx of memories when you're about to do it, and there's that small voice that says "They'll change". Ignore it, that's the devil or the sound of reason leaving you . I'm here to tell you it's fine to cut off certain people. You don't feel bad for throwing out rotten tomatoes so why waste it here. ( I know the tomatoes cost you money that's why throwing them might hurt, that's what...
Before you get in a relationship, there are a few things you need to consider. Relationships are not candycrush, pushing a few shades here and hints there won't make anything sweet. Approach a relationship like choosing a course, or something as serious. I'm not here to preach, but if the gospel of relationship works, by all means pay attention to these things : Have a checklist Before you jump in a relationship, establish your checklist....
Why being single is in your mid 20s is better sounds violent but this is a necessary topic. With agemates getting into serious relationships, others getting married and some bring life to this world the pressure mounts. All those things are beautiful but being single is just as beautiful, its rather odd how it seems like a disability to be single. Being single is perfectly ok, this is why it's better: You have time to yourself When you're...
Popayism(Po- pa- yi- zim ) Verb. ¹ The act of ignoring reality all in the name of love to a point where it becomes comical.² Acting like a cartoon in real life events. “I can change him/her” Your best bet is changing the color of the sky. While you’re at it, tame a piranha. Personality solidifies at a young age, attitudes form over time and character is crafted with experience. Can you change all that ? Without witchcraft? If you can,...
After the male bestfriend and the female bestfriend of course, the most hated group on earth is the committee. These are the people who make decisions for you. The CCTVs of your every move and quite frankly these people can call out your BS. They could be good, they could be your worst nightmare as the boyfriend/girlfriend but believe me, they're not your friends. Your partner's friends are not your friends. The committee has...
Anyone can be a boyfriend but not everyone can master being an alpha. Don't have your woman envy other men simply because you don't cut it as an alpha. It's the simple things that can make you an alpha, pay attention and master these simple hacks. I. Smell Good There's something about a person who smells good. It's a non verbal clue that speaks volumes about your personality. Clean organised people are usually focused on certain things and pay...
You are not dating your friends Yes I said it, you are not dating your friends, let that sink. Since time immemorial, there's been an invisible war between partners and friends and for some odd reason the gospel says "thou shalt not choose thy bae before thy bros". Is your bro going to cuddle you when it's cold ?Is your hommie going to put his head on your chest when you fantasize nonsense and dream big ? Let's be practical for a minute. (...
GBV is still an issue in this day and age and it’s appalling that it’s still happening. I wrote this with a heavy heart and broken spirits. The statistics of victimized women out there, the brutalities against minors and partners still have the nerve to abuse their counter parts. It’s disgusting what some humans are capable of doing, like I said. This is written is pain, in hopes that predicting some abusive traits will save a soul. I....