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What turns ladies off – Discussion 02

What turns ladies off is about the scariest thing to know. What if everything you’ve been doing is a turn off ? How do you fix something that has been engraved in your personality ? Simple, unlearn it if it’s a behavior. If it’s something physically impossible to fix it then she can deal with or shove it up her futsek ! ( Hahaha imagine if it was actually allowed to say that, that would make us the greatest hypocrites) . This post is about the things that can be fixed.

What Gives ?

There are a lot of things men do not know. Ego comes first and they believe they know everything which is actually sad. “You know nothing, Jon Snow !” . Let the ladies school you on what you do wrong besides the sloppy kissing and the boxers you wear all winter.

SO WHAT REALLY TURNS LADIES OFF

I. VIOLATION OF PERSONAL SPACE

Boys have this unconstitutional, unethical, uncalled for urge to want to touch women without consent. No, not in that way. The same distance men observe between each other should be observed with the other gender. “No one wants your hand to tap their shoulder Jerry !” And stand back a bit, let her breathe. There’s nothing more discomforting than having someone intrude your space, that space is reserved for a select few. If you’re a stranger or just an acquaintance, back up… social distance yourself, you’ve learnt what it means.

The Rest is in the comments

Pay attention, ladies are always right.

Men that are always bragging about how expensive their car is and about how they own the newest iPhone

Nomusa

Guys that smoke and drink and then they want to talk to ladies with their terrible breath.

Thabiso Ivy

11 Comments

  • Nomusa

    1.men that can’t go an hour without mentioning their ex
    2.men that lie to get into someone’s pants.
    3.men that won’t put in the effort to plan a date or even send a cute text message
    4.men that send dick pics without warning
    5.men that play victim whenever they don’t get their way
    6.men that are always bragging about how expensive their car is and about how they own the newest iPhone
    7.men that glance down at their phones when somebody else is talking
    8.men that aren’t able to enjoy themselves unless they completely wasted
    9.men that like every Instagram picture they see of a woman in a bikini
    10.men that turn every normal convo into a sexual one

        • Boy.friend

          What if I told you the things you believed when all lies ? Would that change your perspective on what you see as true

      • Nomusa

        They hit and run. Most guys are not being honest with what they real want from us ladies. I think it’s best if you tell me from the beginning that you just wanna us to have fun not a relationship.

  • Thabie

    Now answering your question…
    Men that are clingy are a turn off.
    Personally, I’m a sapiosexual, this is a word l learnt today and boy am l so glad to use it, so what l mean is that I’m attracted to intelligent men, hence, dumb guys are a total turn off.
    Men that still believe in gender roles.
    Guys that smoke and drink and then they want to talk to ladies with their terrible breath.
    Guys who are flashy and show offs are a total turn off.
    Men that turn every single conversation into a sexual one.

    • Boy.friend

      That’s insightful. Let me introduce a different scenario. You discover traits that turn you off in a guy you like, but he has all the other good ones. How do you scale the odds, or how do you let him know?

      • Thabie

        I’m a very upfront person, so I’ve always told it like it is especially when it comes to things that don’t sit well with me, but l have been considered insensitive.

  • Thabie

    If they were all actual lies l would probably tell you l knew that already and if some where true, l would tell you you are lying about everything being a lie.
    I hope l make sense because in my head l do.

    • Thabie

      This is a reply to…

      What if I told you the things you believed when all lies ? Would that change your perspective on what you see as true

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